Yeah, I was kind of appalled that that woman said that to you. Douchy! Just wanted to say though that the sleeping thing gets better. Some babies just like to be held when they sleep. My daughter would only nap in someone's arms from birth to about 3-4 months, then she would nap in the swing, which was awesome. that first 3 months really is the 4th trimester and they just like a lot of touching and holding and snuggling. It's a total pain in the ass though when you want to go to the bathroom or take a shower or eat something that requires more than one hand though.