This is how you do it month to month: go live your life. Have sex. Love Adam a lot, take Liam out and go play, have sex, visit with your friends and family, have sex, cook new things, clean house, have sex, and in a month or two, if you haven't had a period, take a test and THEN you'll know. In other words, if you keep thinking about it and make it your entire focus, you're going to be all sorts of anxious and lose all this time to being anxious. It will happen when it happens, no matter what you do. So go fill your days with living and loving and lots and lots of sex, and just know that the day will come. *hugs*