Oh dear. That's...probably not something I would have an opinion on either.

:(

They never seem to work that well. My friend was in one where all the other mums were mid 30s, well off stay at home mums and who whispered behind her back about my friend because she had her first child at 21 and they assumed she was like, I don't know, in some shotgun marriage. Kind of the opposite extreme to yours. I've not heard many success stories.