Well yeah, if fie people said 'you're great', that would make me smile for sure. But if I fixed whatever was wrong with me that annoyed so-and-so maybe 6 people would think I was great!
And that's genuinely what I would do. Which is why I wisely did not join the honesty meme.
I think I read your comment incorrectly :( let's try again. I'm all for face-to-face discussion too, like I said in the post, but sometimes people are too shy/too cowardly to say things to my face and I do care what they think. Because just because they're shy or cowardly doesn't make the feeling less.. *there*, you know? Just because someone's open and a loudmouth doesn't mean that person has more opinions than a quiet person.
And what I was also trying to say is that some of us care what EVERYONE thinks of us. Which *I* think is rather sad.
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And that's genuinely what I would do. Which is why I wisely did not join the honesty meme.
I think I read your comment incorrectly :( let's try again. I'm all for face-to-face discussion too, like I said in the post, but sometimes people are too shy/too cowardly to say things to my face and I do care what they think. Because just because they're shy or cowardly doesn't make the feeling less.. *there*, you know? Just because someone's open and a loudmouth doesn't mean that person has more opinions than a quiet person.
And what I was also trying to say is that some of us care what EVERYONE thinks of us. Which *I* think is rather sad.
YAY FOR GOOD COMMUNICATION.